Dr. Phil sometimes asks his guests to do an activity where they tell him about their 7 or 10 most defining moments in life. That is what I have been thinking about lately and what I want to to share here on my blog. I may have 7 or 70, I don't know yet. I just know I have some really defining moments or times in my life that clearly shaped who I am today. So over the next few posts of my random thoughts and ideas I will be sharing these defining times. What I hope is that someone else can relate and find comfort knowing they are never alone. Someone always shares our stories, even if that person is only Jesus.
Recently a couple of posts were left on my blog that were anonymous and not polite. They weren't really anonymous to me. I know who wrote them. I took them away because my daughter Makayla reads my blog and when she saw them it upset her. But I would like to address the writer. If my posts offend you, don't read them. This is my blog. I share with friends and family. I am sure that you poster are neither a friend or family member. Your posts suggested I blame others for things in my life. I don't. I chose what paths to take and I also taught people how to treat me. I allowed the things that occurred to effect me and my life. I did it, no one else. Here is what I know for sure. God put you in my life then to make me who I am today. I am careful, cautious, guarded, smarter, wiser, keener, empathetic, sympathetic, courageous, bold, daring and a role model to my daughters that a person should never possess you or treat you like a disposable thing. So I am okay with my past transgressions and sometimes grateful for my past. If I were to be ashamed of myself that would say that I am ashamed of what God is doing in me...and I'm not.
My next topic will be divorce. I know something about divorce. I have been through three, my children have been through them, my husband has been through them and I think I can speak about divorce and tell you something you may not know. I wondered for a long time how and why I got myself to the point of divorce twice. And then I had the opportunity to speak to several young people wanting divorce and I was able to share with them what is never what it seems it will be. So...if I can help others in the way I needed help and couldn't find a helper I am glad I have a testimony. So I will be addressing the topic of divorce and you readers will most likely see more anonymous posts.
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